I kinda hit my threshold at that that point and broke DB a bit and called her on it.
It REALLY bothers me when people make statements like the one above. What the heck do you think DBing is anyway? Do you see DBing as being a mouse who sits back and allows his WW to continue to rant and spew, while you say, "Yes, Dear,........anything you say, Dear". So standing up like a man who has some guts is breaking DB?
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She was still agitated, but backpedaled quite a bit, which was nice for a change... Normally I'm the one trying to backpedal my way out of conflicts
Yeah, well she would back peddle more.....which would continue to be nicer for you, if you stopped allowing her to do this cr@apping stuff. Don't you realize that a woman will act this way to only one kind of man? Figure it out!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
