Sr9, Hopefully that's what my W and I are going to do. She signed a 6 month lease and we're going to go to MC in the meantime. Her words to me were, if I do what i'm supposed to do (ie. make the changes I need to make) then she'll more than likely move back in. But dang if this isn't going to be a long 6 months though. Hang in there.
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M:36 W:31 D:12 M: 8/9/10 ILYBNILWY/"want space": 2/14-ish/16 W moved out 5/24/16.
Am i supposed to confront him about things he isn't telling me? I know he hasn't been honest about a lot of little things, and then just not telling me about what he's doing. I'm supposed to not care right? (Or act like I don't care?) None of it's so serious, but it's just the point that I can't trust him.
Me: 37 Husband: 35 Married 5 years, together 13 Daughter - 1 Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015 He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016 EA confirmed 6/1/16 PA confirmed 8/1/16
SR9, what exactly does that mean? Seeing other people? Is he already doing so? If that's what he's asking for, are you ok with that?
Sorry for all the questions, but if your already separated and working on you, I don't think your into seeing any other people, so if that's what he's asking for, then are you willing to give him permission to? My answer would be hells to the NO...
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M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
To be honest, I don't think he even knows what he wants. Which just makes it all the more confusing for me!
Me: 37 Husband: 35 Married 5 years, together 13 Daughter - 1 Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015 He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016 EA confirmed 6/1/16 PA confirmed 8/1/16
So he went to a concert last night with some friends and it's taking everything in me not to ask if "the girl" was there. Trying to convince myself that it doesn't matter if she was there and me asking isn't going to accomplish anything. Just needed to get that out. Also I'm wondering how getting back together would even work. How do I trust him again?
Me: 37 Husband: 35 Married 5 years, together 13 Daughter - 1 Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015 He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016 EA confirmed 6/1/16 PA confirmed 8/1/16
How do I link to this thread? Or do I start a whole new topic? Sorry, still new lol
Me: 37 Husband: 35 Married 5 years, together 13 Daughter - 1 Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015 He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016 EA confirmed 6/1/16 PA confirmed 8/1/16
