Hi Halo,

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I am going gray, at least for the most part.

Good girl, thats exactly how you should play it for awhile. As I read over the "going ons" with you over the last couple of weeks, I sense that you are a little farther along the line in terms of "devoted" committment to the R than perhaps your XH is at this point. I think your XH is on his way "there", but he is clearly not letting go to some of the aspects of the single lifestyle..he seems to be about 70% Halo, 30% single if I had to guess.. . Overall, things seem to be going in the right direction. Remember, if he really WANTS to he'll pick up the pace, but its gonna be on his timeframe..thats just the way things work, when one wants it more than the other...Of course if you all of a sudden back off a little & reduce the expectations, you know what will happen then...

It takes time Halo, take a look at where this whole deal was at as little as six months ago..

Go gray for a bit, have fun, enjoy the summer, go with the flow, you know the routine..