Right now, I'm not doing it to be a nice guy, I'm doing it because I had offered and she said yes. If I back off that now, I think that would be looked at as me being bitter.
I feel like I shouldn't back down on my word. I'll help and when we're done, I'll get her key. She's def not expecting that, but she will not be welcome here after Saturday.
Well, I think you are being a nice-guy by offering your services......so, my piece of advice is to STOP OFFERING TO HELP HER! Yes, it would make you look like a complete jerk if you backed out, now, from helping her move. So learn from it and don't offer anymore assistance.
Are you helping her move her stuff into her new place? What if OM and his W show up to help, too?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
