I've been thinking things over, taking a really big step back from my R, and looking at it from as much of a distance as I can.
Thinking back to the very start of our R, 18 and a half years ago now. Unbeknownst to me, my H was seeing someone at the time. He really fell for me and chased me hard. I didn't know he was/had been seeing someone else, and I didn't ask. I guess I assumed he was available. It feels a bit like he kind of sidelined her and swept his existing R under the carpet. At one point he did mention he had been seeing someone else, but I didn't ask any more about it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
