Blueboy's Journey Thread 2

[blueboy]

Think I could have made matter worse! What should I do know!

When you go directly against the advice you are given, it usually does make matters worse. There's not much you can so about the letter. You cannot unwrite it.

Please don't do these things as a way of getting a positive reaction from her. You only hurt yourself. If it worked, don't you think we would be telling everyone to write emotional letters to their WW?

I understand, just had a bad few days and backslides!

The update on the situation is that we are now not in the house together at any time, who ever has the children are in the house!

I'm finding the house as a big trigger and not sure what to do, as the house is up for sale and I'm not sure I can stay there until it's sold without cracking under the stess of it all! Ideally I think she should move out, but she will not!

WW still playing happy family and want to attend event as a family together for the sake of the children, I'm not sure that's is good for me!