Think I had a bit of a set back for myself. I had a feeling that this guy she had EA with was still around, and sure enough, he was/is. I brought up this fact, and there wasn't any fighting, but I could tell she was visibly annoyed. She didn't try to say no, like before.
She said that he is a contractor and that he has connections and is helping her with getting things done at the condo, since she can't do them on her own. Now, this guy is married with kids, and she has said that he's been over to the condo WITH his wife and kids. I doubt his W knows about EA, but that's not my business. My W has been relatively in the same circle of friends as them, so I know she knows both of them. She said there is absolutley nothing there between her and him, that she isn't even the slightest bit attracted to him, and that she isn't talking to anyone, nor wants to.
I left it at that. I told her thanks for letting me know, but that it wasn't my business anyway anymore. I really want to believe her, but I'm finding it hard. If it IS true, I can see why she is annoyed by me lol. But she's lied to me before, and I brought that up, trying to explain how it looks/feels on the other side of the fence, regardless whats true/false. As they say, one lie cancels a thousand truths. Guess that's my hill to climb if I ever want to give her another shot.
