Think I could have made matter worse! What should I do know!
When you go directly against the advice you are given, it usually does make matters worse. There's not much you can so about the letter. You cannot unwrite it.
Please don't do these things as a way of getting a positive reaction from her. You only hurt yourself. If it worked, don't you think we would be telling everyone to write emotional letters to their WW?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!