Sandi always says, don't cover up her affair. If she says it's amicable in front of you, then out her. If you do nothing, then you are implicitly condoning it and staying a doormat.
Just to clarify, That's not exactly what I say, DDJ. I don't think the BS should lie and try to cover her affair. However, I am not a fan of full out exposure, and certainly do not recommend it for every situation.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
