Do we think my W is playing games by giving across this perfect life persona on facebook? It takes 1 little facebook post to get me back in a rubbish place mentally
It's the first time since this has all happened that I'm going to spend a sustained period of time on my own and the loneliness is taking hold. I'm missing the company of my wife so much tonight and it's taking all my effort not to reach out to her.
Hi Kyler. Can you distract yourself ? Film , Xbox , walk , something to change your focus
Re her Facebook and her great new life , unless she's a psychopath, she's not able to just switch off her feelings for you BUT as Zues posted on someone else thread , your W sees you as an Ex now so don't expect her to act like anything else.
Keep posting mate , your not alone , someone's always on here
Kyle, I hear you. I am more than a year post BD and I do still get the pang-filled lonely moments too. Especially at nights.
What you're feeling is normal amd you will cycle through other feelings like regret, denial, anger etc. Have you read up on the different stages of grieving?
What we're trying to do here is to give a gentle (or not so gentle) 2 x 4 when we sense someone getting stuck in one stage for too long. Whatever stage you're in, life must go on. And since life must go on, make it more fun for yourself.
(((Kyle)))
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
