Detachment, anxiety and the end of limbo

[Painter]

This is going to sound stupid, but it almost makes me feel worse than the extramarital sex issue. Sharing his body is one thing, but sharing our LIFE? Our camper, our house, taking her back to our college campus, going hiking. WTF?

No, it doesn't sound stupid. The hardest thing of all that has happened to me, was when I found out that WH had moved OW into our home. I asked him recently how he could just replace me like an old battery?

And sharing the body... I got to tell you, if you got him back, you might feel differently about it. I know it was never the same for me after I found out that WH had been with another woman. At first it was more intense (reconciliation phase), then it got weird. The trust issue came between us from my side.