Originally Posted By: doodler
Originally Posted By: Natus
...pack my gear, hop on a motorcycle and disappear.


That sounds like the perfect vacation.

It does sound perfect. Alas my son, schedule and myriad of other things will not let me go. Quite frankly my W wont be able to cope with my son alone either.

Past week or two We have been doing everything like a normal family, spending alot of time together. Had a good weekend, too good that i deluded myself into thinking we were on the mend. Got shot down pretty fast last night. Atleast im not confused about our position anymore.

While i have been doing great on 180s i havent gone dark / LRT. I think its time that i do.

Any tips on still living together / same bed going dark and LRT?


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.