No news, just posting to keep in touch with my forum team. Wanted to say thanks to Sandi and Zuess for the tough words that need to be said. Zuess I am halfway through your sitch, lots to read there and also lots to learn from it. I am starting to really be detached from my old relationship with my STBXW, my mouth makes this smile thing again. Went to the lake and hung out with a friend and made some new friends last night, which was good for me. Today worked on being a good dad to my S13. And gave myself some time to ride my mountain bike. So far so good I think. My mind still does wander (just like you Zuess) and starts to wonder if my M can be saved and she will come back to me. Mostly because she is still cake eating a bit. I know this will probably never reconcile. She wants nothing to do with the M and could give two SH**&S about me being her H. Working out a plan in my head to pay for L and will make some calls on Monday to get an apt with one. Thanks again you two!
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
