Update- No news on the house and XH is still being very distant. Another weekend we did not see each other. Oh well, there will be plenty of time for us later, once every thing is taken care of outside of "US".
I kept myself very busy this weekend, went to the Zoo Saturday during the day and went to see Shreck 2 that night (very funny movie). I spent all day Sunday cleaning house and doing laundry. The house looked beautiful all day until my mother comes home (my mom lives with me). Within a thirty minute period she had destroyed what took me all day to clean. Xh called me sunday evening and we talked for a little while he then proceedes to tell me (without me asking) that he is sorry for not calling me lately, he just hates calling me and complaining about his problems, that they are his problems and he does not want to bring me into them. Without even taking a breath, he starts to "unload" on me about everything that has been happening. (inside I giggled because didn't he just tell me that he is being distant because he hates calling me just to complain about his problems? ) I listened and validated as much as I could. When he finally did take a breath I tried (unsuccessfully) to change the subject. My guess is that he just needed to talk to someone not trying to give him answers. I hope and pray that this whole thing is taken care of soon. Hope all of you are well!
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
) I listened and validated as much as I could. When he finally did take a breath I tried (unsuccessfully) to change the subject. My guess is that he just needed to talk to someone not trying to give him answers.
