Don't even know where to begin. I feel completely devastated, with no fight left in me. Wife dropped kids off this morning and gave me a card for her lawyer at same time. Asked if I would please contact her lawyer this week. Said she following through on divorce. Dropped the kids off and gave me the news.

Can she be this cold? I'm at a total loss for words. Do I keep fighting for my marriage? I feel as lost today as BD day

I think that this may truly be the end. Very discouraged. Any advice is welcome.

Me-LBH, 44
Spouse-WAW, 41
Married for 9 years
S, 7 S, 5
BD - November 20th 2015