I'm older so I just decided I give it so long as the ow was already on the scene for about 6months before I knew. He chose her, and was really Nasty about it.
So I took a friends advice use a year to re group and heal. She knew I had lost myself along the way. Yes I cycled bad too. I had a few r before and know the way xh2 was behaving he would just continue to flaunt the ow. So I just decided to gal and see what happened. Bf wife had died and even tho was young had found only nut bags online.
Things have clicked and so far it works. There is an issue of him finding good work that regular where I live isn't easy to get this. So this could be the one major issue.
After a year I had gotten to a point where I missed to many things about marriage. I had already decided that I would grab any opportunity that came my way.
As silly as it sound but a comfort rub on the back in bed, I missed most. Which according to xh2 there was no intimacy (well he meant touch and really more the sex) which wasn't true.
So many things were odd compared to any other break up like him having that conversation and the fact his taste in food completely changed. Food he had never liked he bought home raving about. He bought a large high performance family car, even tho his son had left home and mine was about to. So many things things were just odd.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26