That a good mantra Faith, "why the heck not" should be the way forward for us all.
It sounds like you are doing really well GALing, you are such an inspiration with your fitness goals! And here I am proud to be walking more lol. Then again my goal is to progress to running at some point, so maybe I'll be running half marathons at some point too.
Fayth it sounds like your H's inability to discuss the R or what he wants, is a form of rug sweeping. Why are they so immature? In my case one of H's complaints was that we didn't communicate enough, but after BD we talk even less! I don't understand the immaturity and lack of courage. Just a thought, maybe your situation is different.
By the way, thank you for stoping by my thread, I appreciate it.
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”