Charles, thanks for your opinion. I will try to remember not to "nag" too much. I am reading a book called Mars and Venus together forever and it has given me a lot of insight into men but your view does help a lot. The last thing I wanted to do was to "nag" (this is basicially what our M was before our sepatarion) I did tell him I was there and you are right I should leave it at this. Thank you so much for reminding me that I need to be his friend, say as little (which actually means so much) as possible about this situation. I want to be as supportive as possible, but I dont want to be blind sided by fear. I have to admit that I am worried about him, I am worried about how this situation is going to effefct "US", and the worse case senario still pops into my head from time to time. I am trying to give him his "cave" time but I did not expect it to last so long. He is a wonderful man and when we are together he makes me feel so special but when we are apart I worry about what could be. I know this is not the right way to look at things but I still worry. I know this man loves me, I feel in my heart that we are going to spend forever together but it does not keep me from thinking she (Ow) is going to do everything in her power to make sure this does not happen. Is there a magic spell to wart off unwanted people? hee hee hee Just when you think life is going your way, you get a monkey wrench in it to give you a reality check. Silly I know. I went to see my new nephew today, he is still the second most beatuiful baby I have ever seen (my 1st nephew, HUNTER, being the first). I swear my XSIL went from a little girl to a mom in two seconds flat. It was neat looking at her this way. My XSIL's H's mom asked how I was related to her and I was at a loss for words ( I know strange for me), I looked at XSIL and she said I was her SIL, Drew's aunt. This made me so proud. I love Xh's family, his mom and I are getting along like we are best friends. I believe XSIL is happy to have me as a part of her sons life. I have spoiled him already. hee hee hee. The feelings of wanting to have children of "our" own is getting stronger and stronger. Thanks to all that support me and are in my corner rooting for me. love ya,
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
