Quote: Is the Ow that H bought the house with, the same Ow he had when you guys were initially separating. How long were you with OM after the separation/divorce?
Nitaf
Yes, this is the same Ow as when we separated three years ago. Xh and I separated in March and by Decemeber my R with OM was over. It was relatively easy for me to end my R with OM (this time) because when your life flashes in front of your eyes as mine did it does not seem so glamerous. Long story short, OM and I went out (like always) came back to my place and he confused me with a rag doll or a punching bag. Needless to say I faught him off of me, called the police, filed assault charges on him, the courts informed him he could not come within 500 feet of me, and have not talked to him since.
On a brighter note XSIL had a baby yesterday ITS A BOY, 7lbs 14.5oz, 19 1/4 in long, light brown hair, he has not allowed anyone to see his eyes yet. You should have seen the look on Xh face, when he saw the baby, and held him. Seeing Xh hold our new nephew really gave me Baby fever! when Xh held the baby he did not look stressed, He looked so happy. Boy I have not seen that look on his face in a while. When we were leaving the hospital in the elevator ( I know probably not the best time to bring it up) I asked him if everything was okay, said that we have not really talked for the past week. He said "yeah, just stressed out about the house stuff". I told him that I was there for him, I know you are dealing with a difficult time and you are not trying to make me feel like this but I feel like you is pushing me away and putting up a wall between us, I am here for you, there is nothing I can do to "fix" this situation but I want you to know you do not have to go through this alone. He then tells me that its his problem and he does not want to bring me into it, I dont want to worry you with it. I then tell him that It is worrying me because I see he is worried, and that we are a team, we do not have to go through anything good or bad alone. I know parts of this in not in the Db'ing handbook but it is how I feel. Did I do too bad?
Will journal later.
Thanks,
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
