I hope your L can put a lockdown on marital property and funds asap.
I'm glad you're surrounded by family and friends, even if it means telling your story. I find that sometimes it helps me tap into the anger rather than the sadness, which is energizing.
Enjoy your time with them. We'll be here.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17