Detachment, anxiety and the end of limbo

[Phoebe]

Quick update. I had another really good day with my brother and parents today.

I'm feeling some anger because I just peeked at OWs photo feed again (I know I shouldn't, but i did it anyway). There I saw that she and H were out camping in OUR beautiful vintage camper van 5 days ago. He filed for D and goes camping in the vehicle that I have poured so much effort into. I sewed the curtains, I've cleaned up mouse nests and damage so many times, including just a few days before H walked.

I also had to tell my story (the super condensed) version again today. I get all kinds of support, but it's still no fun to relay. That book I read is right, as soon as anyone hears the story, they immediately start being supportive. Today the person said 'he wasn't even man enough to tell you himself.' Nope. He wasn't. He was out camping.

I named that camper, and there she is using that pet car name as a hatch tag. So slimy.

What is also crappy is that the vehicle has a collector car declared value insurance policy that requires it to be kept in a locked garage anytime it is stored. Camping is OK, but I know now that he has to be parking it on the street near his apartment. It is marital property and he's taken it out of state and violated the insurance policy. Not cool and remarkably irresponsible.

Anyway, I'm fine, just frustrated. After I retain my lawyer, I need to address this issue with her PDQ.

Still have to catch up with everyone on the board.

Hi to SH, Cherry, Painter, Sotto, Dory/Grl, V, rich, Ggrass, Blu, and everyone else I'm too fried to put on this list. Sweet sleep and wishes for a peaceful Sunday.