I'm sorry. It's a hard time. Today has been 2 weeks for me. I've had good days, and bad days. Good moments and bad moments. I think women think they have to do one more nice thing before they make the next move.

I facetimed my wife to say goodnight to S. I asked what the tshirt was she was wearing, and she hid it from the camera. Then, when texting about his day she said she's exhausted. I validated and said your work for summer has been rough, but she replied "life." I asked if she needed to tell me something....no response. She's dropping son off with me tommorrow at 9. We had a good morning at the pool, together, with him. She instigated a hug, which is the first one since she walked out. I'm planning on hearing the worst tomorrow....

Good luck. Grab some sleep if you can. We're all here to support you.


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.