Wiley, you are so very insightful. Thanks for stopping by and giving your valued and respected point of view.
Quote: Can you honestly say you would have pursued him that hard, if you knew he was just out there "working on himself".. and NOT SEEING SOMEONE ELSE??
Nope, not when it was a game. It was simply a matter of "he's mine and I'll prove it to you".
you really have a good memory...
Quote: because a WAS will not PURSUE reconciliation UNTIL they are ready, and that usually coincides with you letting go, stopping the chase, and being confident enough to say what you did way back when.."Let me know when you have things worked out with your present situation"..or something like that if I recollect correctly..
That statement did get the ball moving a bit faster didn't it? Boy, I really took a chance making that statement.
Thanks for putting this down, We all need a reminder that our efforts are not waisted, and that Patence and faith are wonderful things to have!
Well, thats often the kind of foundation that must be laid if there is any hope of garnering some interest in renewing an R that appeared to be DONE..The strong ones, make the tough love sacrifices involved in cutting the lines, and stay consistent..even if it appears as though its not producing anything..In the long run it will, because we are all to some extent curious when something we had, just kinda drifts off into the sunset, quietly without a fuss...and we then ACT on that curiosity, and all it takes is that one phone call INITIATED BY THE XWAH/W when you least expect it, to perhaps get the ball rolling again..
You have a wonderful weekend as well. I will do just that and drink a couple of strawberry margaritas and toast to the accomplishments my friends here have made this week. Hugs and Prayers are always with you.
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
