I guess what I'm really balking at is the idea that any of us should close ourselves off for the sake of what might happen. I have some guy friends that I can have wonderful intellectual conversations with, and it's always going to end there. I have MyNica who is probably going to break my heart and I wouldn't trade it away, he's made my life so much richer. And I wouldn't want to miss out on the next love of my life because I had rules in place that prevented me from doing so.
Thanks for being patient with me Zues, I always appreciate your opinion and your perspective.
