It's also possible that I'm a bit burned.

I've had two serious relationships. Both ended with my partner cheating on me with a guy friend. I think that could skew me.

Also, neither relationship was very good. It's hard to imagine a good relationship, where I felt I was a priority to my partner. If the relationship was strong I think I'd feel much more at ease in general.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15