Ultimately we understand each of us need to do what's right for ourselves. Just please consider not doing anything spur of the moment - take a couple more days with no further action to really consider any big moves.

If you're confident something is what you have to do, then you lose nothing by merely waiting a couple days and reflecting.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11