The thing that bothers me most about my wife wanting the divorce is her treatment of me. She ignores me, will not speak to me unless she has something to say, will not look at me unless she is talking. After 30 years and 3 children I am treated like a bum on the street corner.
I understand she wants a divorce, I accept it but must I be treated like a piece of human debris. The intelligent sophisticated woman I married is acting in a rude immature manner. It could be worse I suppose.
As I live in the twilight of my marriage I see more clearly the state of my strengths and weaknesses. I will strive to get my emotional house in order. Working on my psychological and physical issues will reap a better emotional state of well being.
That's where I am and what I'm doing. I am not bitter. Actually, I have hope for a happy future, a different one then I wanted but a happy one. Be well
What makes you think that the divorce is about YOU? Or anything that YOU did?
My guess is this is more about her and you are a casualty of war. My own opinion is that they live to regret it but only after you are long gone.
