Yes it has been some time since we have connected. I still come by and keep an eye on those who have loved and supported me and those I hold, well I guess hold a little piece of her my heart and soul.
What you write above must feel like such a burden RAI. It is not right that your wife uses legal loopholes and dishonesty. And when something is not right, then action must be taken. There are times for passive resistance and working a plan and there are times when firm clear and decisive action needs to be taken.
When do you lovely RAI get to say ENOUGH! .
I am likely speaking out of turn, or maybe not, but I believe there is nothing in DBing that says roll over and let your wayward wife and life kick you your arse. I have heard too many DBers say, if only I had of....once they were out of the quagmire of the in house separation...you are not going to be a survivor of this awful experience RAI, but a THRIVER. But it starts here, it starts NOW!
Time to refortify my friend!!! If you ever need me...I'm on MWD facebook page, look for the hobbit and Zelda New. We all needs friends who understand this journey.
Its time to Rise Above It, but this time Rise like a Phoenix from the ashes my friend, fly high proud and strong. You got this!!
