I am interested to know how you and your xh have learned to trust each other again? My mother forgave my father a few times for his infidelity on business trips and then he ended up marrying our neighbor?? Look where her trust got her?? It makes me wonder if I am fighting a war that cannot be one.
Can I ever trust my H again after his affair? H hasn't decided that our M is worth saving right now, so I may be asking this question and still get a D. I'm not sure if I can ever get the R and M that I want with my H, anyway.
