I've had setbacks, and I know I will continue to have setbacks. The biggest thing I've learned this week, through my mistakes & through my IC, is that I HAVE to start taking care of myself.
Keep this where you can see it. It is a very good reminder to keep close by.
Originally Posted By: ahmeds
but I've finally come to the realization that I cannot force him to recognize that mistake. I can only hope that one day he will, and in the meantime, I am just going to go on with my life and do what's best for me. Hopefully I will remain strong during the whole process.
This realization is what will help you take the appropriate steps to gaining back the power over yourself. The hope can be the energy that can drive you, so long as it does not become the driving reason behind your efforts. Doing what is best for you is a perfect approach to this. It is the DB way. You will stumble in the process, you will lose strength at times. But the key, is to get back up each time you fall. Strength is gained each time you do so.
You are doing well this week. One small step at a time and you will move to a better place.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
