Its not too late!

[mylittlehalo]

Hacker, Thanks for your encouragement!! It make the bad days easier when you know you have so many people fighting with you in your corner.

I have to disagree with you on one point you made. I know its a little early in our friendship to disagree. LOL
You said

Your story does bring hope to those of us who have been divorced. But, as we all know, it takes two to make it work. As I've been telling others, it's OK to keep the hope if you want to, but don't confuse it with expectations.

I am very glad my story gives hope but I do not agree that it takes two. IMHO it only takes one person to initiate the changes. you know the saying for every action there is an equal or opposite reaction. I do agree with not confusing hope with expectations. In the Db game I have learned to expect nothing and give everything.
Just wanted to give my opinion on this matter. Because I can honestly tell you that I was the one to make the first changes and I was the one who decided to not give up, XH just followed my lead.