EDF and Zues, I read your replies, and will think on it and reply tomorrow.

Right now I am stewing about something new from the kids. S11 told me xW is planning to sell one of their toys... Something I did a ton of research to buy, to modify, and maintain, but she insisted in getting in the D. She also told S11 she absolutely will not sell it to me. he continued by saying that xW told him I need to learn how to treat people better.

I asked both kids again, do I ever say anything bad about their mom? They both say no. I asked if she says anything bad about me? They said yes. I told them that I am glad they notice, they should just continue to notice, and come to their own conclusions.