Oops. Didn't mean to offend Wonka:) My bad. Lol Yeah, actually that's what started my anxiety again about a year ago when she started working in that field. I read a lot of stuff online about paramedics and firefighters ending up with awful marriages, affairs, etc They spend a lot of time together. In high stress situations. These are some of the things I read about. It got my anxiety through the roof. But I am learning I can't control her or the environment. Everyone has free will and its up to each individual on what they wish to do with it
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it