Oops. Didn't mean to offend Wonka:)
My bad. Lol
Yeah, actually that's what started my anxiety again about a year ago when she started working in that field. I read a lot of stuff online about paramedics and firefighters ending up with awful marriages, affairs, etc
They spend a lot of time together. In high stress situations. These are some of the things I read about. It got my anxiety through the roof.
But I am learning I can't control her or the environment. Everyone has free will and its up to each individual on what they wish to do with it


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it