What Should I be doing (4)

[Coconut]

I think you handled it well. We are a lot alike Coconut. When I read your exchanges between you and your W I swear I am reading my texts and how we speak to each other. Except in my case I was definitely controlling and demanded too much.
My wife works in that field as well. She is a part time EMT who is now in paramedic school.
You are so fortunate to have Sandi and Wonka posting on your sitch
Wonka will definitely throw around some 2x4's:)
He cracked me a whole bunch my last time around

CBT, If I was to post older texts they were completely different, in fact, most of the time I wouldn't even respond (only because I nvr chkd my phone, but I 180d that because I know it drove her crazy).

My counselor said that she sees a lot of firefighters and police in MC due to A, I guess there is a thing with people in uniform... My W just does it as volunteer work, we actually work together in our careers.

I'm definitely lucky Sandi2 and Wonka paid so much attention to me, Sandi held my hand through most of this and Wonka would step in and knock me back on the rails...

Ps - I'm pretty sure Wonka is a she, not he