I want to say "thanks halo" for telling your story, it gives me a new way to look at this. I believe my H has been fence sitting. Between Oct-Dec he was here 3-4x a wk! Coming to holidays and even came over and ate supper one night. In oct we went golfing with another couple.
I think they ARE unsure but have too much pride to admit they are unhappy or have hurt us, or that they have made a mistake!
Quote: I think a lot of WAS wind up realizing at one point they may have made a mistake and see their lives as being more miserable once their wish has been granted. The key, however, is whether they have the humility to recognize their fault and responsibility, and the strength to face their own demons.
oh yes!That was me, it came to me last June! Unfortunatly my H now wants the D...
But the insight you all are putting on this thread is very valuable! I want to thank all who contribute in helping the rest of us that are struggling!
Have to go see the att today, the settlement begins. That idiot actually thinks that I want this D! What a moron! Some people only "see" what they choose to see!
