Hey! Thought I would check in and let you know how great you are doing.

I've read parts of your thread but not fully had a chance to read in detail. It's hard, so hard. Especially when they become a person you never thought they would. Well done to you standing strong and focusing on your little ones.

You are doing good at recognising that this is his journey, and his issue. It is hard when you want to help them when they hit self destruct. But I'm not sure there is anything we can do. Apart from step back a little and focus on us. Do whatever you need to do to look after yourself and your little ones at this time


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16