So in that respect yes I do still love her, but equally I can see how much she has hurt me.
Why do you ask?
srt,
It's hard for me to put my finger on it, but there's something different about your post relative to the typical LBS post. I'm under a time constraint right now so I'll be brief, but I don't know if I'll be able to capture the essence of what I'd like to say.
It seems to me that most LBS take on much of the blame for the state of their marriage even though their spouses are cheating on them. You, on the other hand, are blaming your wife and her family and others to a greater extent than I'd expect.
I'll have to put more thought into it and expand on it this weekend. For some reason you or your situation seems different from the norm so you're harder to help because it's difficult to relate to you.
I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to be honest and helpful. I don't have any recommendations other than IC right now.
I'll give it more thought and see if I can better explain myself later this weekend.
