I think you handled it well. We are a lot alike Coconut. When I read your exchanges between you and your W I swear I am reading my texts and how we speak to each other. Except in my case I was definitely controlling and demanded too much. My wife works in that field as well. She is a part time EMT who is now in paramedic school. You are so fortunate to have Sandi and Wonka posting on your sitch Wonka will definitely throw around some 2x4's:) He cracked me a whole bunch my last time around
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it