well....that didnt go as planned.....

i went over to grab the kids. and she says, i got my mom to watch the kids for you. i respond with. oh, ty, i got someone else to do it , but ill cancelled that. and bang !!! big fight starts.

she says, oh you thought i wasnt going to do it? so you side stepped me??? and wasnt going to tell me???

big fight about everything under the sun....

fight ends. we stop. actually talk to one another and talk about how this all came to be. how we both should have handeled it better and what each of us was thinking. i thought that part went extremly well.

then she gets into, ya know, if we would both just be nice to each other and put in the work, we could make this work. but....i just dont know if i want to put in the work or not.

ugh......