Wow! looks like we both reconnected with DB within days of each other. Pretty weird.
I don't know what the right thing to do is, but one DB way to reconnect with a spouse is by doing things together that you used to enjoy. What did you used to do together when you were first dating or newlyweds?
Are you sending signals to your H that you are needy? Are your actions betraying you? If you are playing the pursuer, your H won't.
