Exactly what I was thinking. Either way, won't sway things one way or the other. I want to be consistent for myself, no one else. Right now, its hard to make ANY progress one way or the other while living together. I will be going dark when she leaves. There is nothing I need from her. Detaching will be easier once we don't live together.
Be consistent in your stand for your M .... you read here long enough you will come to a phrase "I am sorry you feel this way, this is not what I want but I respect your decision" drop that and walk away. Every action you make should be one where it says "I am a man who wants my M" .... moving her out says ... here I will help you leave. "Believe none of what they say and 1/2 of what they do" is another one here ... this also applies to us, we are examined more in what we do than what we say .... realize this. You helping her validates to her she is right in moving out, infact you also think its a great idea. Thats what your actions show ..... don't try the "No she will see what a great guy I am by helping her out" ... that train left when she BD you.
