Wiley, & Slowly: It is always nice to hear from you both. Your insights and views are well respected!
I am trying to remember to be patient and I am also trying not to get too worked up about his jealousy with XOW. I believe it is natural for any of us to be jealous when the person we “cared” for rubs our face in their new relationship. It is my belief he makes certain she will not show up when I am there because he is a Libra Male, he hates confrontations. I also believe he does not want to put me in a situation that might upset me. He is dealing with an awful lot right now. He has been somewhat distant, but the good news is that he is opening up to me more and more daily. The cat calls brighten up both of our day. We are planning our future together, which keeps me going. I am proceeding with caution, and I am continuing to practice my Db’ing skills.
Quote: That's why it is important we keep dbing, all the good stuff that makes them think of us MORE than they think of OW, until they don't think of OW at all...
This is good stuff, and another one of Halo's goals!
Thanks
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.