Mylittlehalo, I have read your entire thread and I must say you are incredible. I don’t know if I have the strength to wait for years. I do have a few questions for you.
I am curious about some of your feelings in the beginning ie, when you were with OM, did you have any intention of reconciliation with H? Did you feel at that time that you loved your H or OM? Did you think about H? Did H think about you? If you know other feeling H went thru then I would be interested in that also.
My W is so sure right now she wants D and doesn’t love me anymore. She also feels she will never love me again. I would like to get some insight as to what she may be thinking if anything. If you want to read my thread, it is below. If you don’t have time to read my thread then let me know and I will give you a quick rundown.
I don’t see anything wrong with you moving in with H in his house. That would be better financially. I would have all locks changed so OW can’t come over and snoop. If the couple does buy it what will you do? It makes me so happy that things have worked out for you. Keep up the good work.