Its not too late!

[mylittlehalo]

Mooka, Yes, I am very excited about the almost sell of his house. Except his XOw is being absolutely crazy and being a witch. Really has Xh worried about what she is going to do to his things in their house or worse what she is going to do to sabotage the sell.

Slowly, I really enjoy reading your opinion of the situation at hand.

Sounds like a wonderful flirty conversation, quite pointless - I say don't worry too much about things, as you and he gain confidence in each other, there will be more light stuff, what with the cat calls and all

This is something I have not thought of until you brought it up. I have to say you are correct, we will have more to talk about once the confidence levels are established. I think we are at a point in our R that we are still not sure what we can and cannot talk about with the other person. Plus his present situation has got to put a strain on him, I'm sure he will loosen up when that stress is out of his life.
The meow went better than I could have imagined. He laughed so hard it made me laugh and brightened up both of our days!

Cutting the carbs will be the next thing I try. A little discouraged but still not ready to give up. I must remember that I didn't put this extra weight on overnight and it is not going to come off overnight either!

Journaling-
The last couple of days, since Xh had the meeting with the retired couple that wants to buy his house, Xh has been pretty distant. I have learned from the book men are from mars that this is pretty normal. He is just in his cave and I have to accept this. He will get his problems worked out and then he will come out of his cave, he will again be the man I love and want to spend forever with.
I don't know how to explain it but I had this feeling in the bottom of my stomach yesterday that something was wrong. Well, I was right something is wrong, his XOw has gone completely nuts, she is crazy!! I don't know all the details, just bits and pieces but I know she has been spending more time at the house since Wed and she had a house full of people over there last night. Xh is worried she and her friends will clean him out, if you know what I mean. He is also worried she will do something to sabotage the sale of the house. He is so stressed, and worried about leaving his house for too long because of this crazy psycho!
One thing that bothers him is something I do not think should bother him. He told me that he walked into the garage last night and he saw his XOw and this guy (whom she said was just a friend) making out. He seemed angry about it and told me that he was upset because she lied to him about this other guy and because she disrespected him by doing this in front of him. He then proceeded to tell me that he would never do this in front of her. He said "Every time you come over I make sure she will not be here and she won't show up." What the hell does this mean?

Not ever been in this type of situation before I don't understand why he would be upset. They are not together anymore, they are just room-mates right, he never loved her, he just used her because he knew she would always be there, the list goes on an on. utterly confused. Any one with experience on this topic please let me know.

Other than the above hurdle, things are really well! Still looking for a house, Planning our future together. He has told me several times that he wants me to be able to take off work until our children start school (If that's what I want to do), Sunday we had another talk about having kids, I told him I think I will only work for about two more years. He smiled, you could tell that he was pleased with this news.

Will catch up more later.
Hugs and prayers