The little research I did on Polyamory says that no relationship that started out as an affair can ever end up in a Polyamory relationship as all trust is lost and Polyamory requires absolute trust. Hopefully she'll realise that too and decide that the monogamous relationship is really what God has planned for us.
PacLove,
Some of the stuff that I read on this forum frightens me.
Do you really think your wife cares whether or not a polyamory relationship that started as an affair won't be lasting? She'll just find someone else.
I'm struggling with how to say this nicely, but if you see the fact that a polyamory relationship can't be the end result of an affair as a positive sign for your MR, then you must be whiffing some of your wife's affair fog.
