So as pondered my discovery last night I think I'm realizing that my W must really be "in love" with OM otherwise why would she be researching ways to keep it going.
Anyways I kown thinking about it is not good DB'ing but it wasn't like I went looking for this, I accidentally came across it when I was buying a hook yesterday.
The little research I did on Polyamory says that no relationship that started out as an affair can ever end up in a Polyamory relationship as all trust is lost and Polyamory requires absolute trust. Hopefully she'll realise that too and decide that the monogamous relationship is really what God has planned for us.
Ramping up my prayers.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17