What Should I be doing (4)

[Coconut]

Thx Cubebot.. DB is definitely the best thing that has happened to me in quite awhile...

So W text me today, says (friend) just invited me to see Darius Rucker this weekend with her. Do you mind if I go?

My initial thought was that I don't mind her going with this friend, so I just text back "I guess that means I'm not invited".

after about 5 minutes of thinking about it, I then text "yes, I guess I do mind. You say that you want to do fun things with me, but you keep making plans that don't include me and I'm left by myself..."

I then went over to her office (we work together), and I told her that obviously I don't mind her hanging out with this friend (I've been friends with this girl for many years before my wife met her), but you don't have a lot of free time with all the studying you have to do, and I don't want another weekend to go by without getting to hang out with you (last weekend she went out with FF class friends).

She said that she didn't make the plans, just that our friend was supposed to go with someone else that had to back out so she had an extra ticket. I told her that the old me wouldn't of minded staying home while she went out, but that's not what I want anymore, and that's not what she wants.. so I suggested she call friend and see if it's cool if I buy a ticket and go to.

She said that would be good, and is reaching out to friend.