Just rereading last post I made... to clarify:
I confirmed that I go to coffee at work with co-workers (not confirmed anything else because there is not anything else).

This says a lot about her level of trust.

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room