Ok Sandi, so I do have to respond but am taking my time about it. She doesn't know I have spoken to a lawyer, that is clear. She is looking for things to work out better for her, that is also clear. I have my hands tied a little by the legal points regarding the house but she also wants to 'work together'.
For the car, she is offering to buy my half but I have no doubt she is not considering he whole cost and how she will insure it. If I buy her out, it works better for me as I don't have to deal with registration costs, new insurance etc. It does help her in a way by giving her some money but she will have a hard time finding her own car due to only driving automatic. With the budget she will have, that will be difficult. She talked about a court battle but I'm sure that won't happen till a divorce is final when I would just sell it and split the money.
For the kids it's not really changed, she wants to move D3 again which can be ok but she isn't looking at the next months when I have the kids away for holiday during the daycare closure. The one she wants to move her too is closed the 3 weeks after we are back from holiday. I will not have any spare days and she hasn't indicated taking them anywhere or taking the time off. However again mentions working together.
There are some other items that I will have to bring up which work in my favour that I haven't taken care of yet.
I guess I'm just wondering how much information I share when I respond.
