Catching up on your sitch and I am sorry for you. The papers getting finalized is a punch in the gut. I got my surprise in January and I lost my breath when I got these and froze.
In fact felt like throwing up for a few days and being the same house was the worst experience of my life as I wanted to throw cold water on her to wake her up.
But now you have to protect yourself. going to any court will be alot of $$$ so hopefully the L's can get to a quicker settlement between the 2.
I am just starting to read another book that a friend recommended called Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce.....and bulding a new life
So far its not bad. Stay strong!
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....